I meet a lot of middle-agers who feel disoriented and disconnected with life. The pressures of getting older, coupled with fatigue and fear that “Maybe I’ve missed something,” cause some to abandon their marriage, buy a sports car and head for the beach. Many middle-agers aren’t sure what that “something” is, but they’re convinced it will be found elsewhere. Middle age brings a lot of unfulfilled dreams. It ushers in cynicism too, because we’ve seen more calamity and had m